I used to be a karate player in school team when I was in junior high. Though it took most of my time in daily life to practice and the wounds caused in the training made me hurt, I’m still enthusiastic. All I want was to perform well and get the championship in every competition. However, I had never thought that the award was not that important to me and my life until the most important contest in my life.
It was the last contest in my junior high. Nonetheless, it might be a turning point of my life. I could get into my ideal senior high if I got the championship. To me, who always gets the award in the contest, lost the game out of the blue. To my astonishment and disappointment, I burst into tears, blaming myself for losing the game. Surprisingly, my coach didn’t blame me but talked to me cheerfully, “Now you are a real player.” I looked at him doubly, and he said continuously, “The player who had never undergone frustrations couldn’t be called a real player. Failure can make people grow. Actually you were not a real player before, but now, one of people who have failed, you are the real winner.”
Even though I haven’t take part in the competition for a long while after I left junior high. However, what my coach said to me still rings in my mind, encouraging me when I am frustrated. This experience, losing the game but learning a great lesson enables me to become a winner in not only contest, but real life.






